Society has created two genders: one of male in blue and one of female in
pink. The male persona must constantly prove and uphold himself in
order to hold onto the blue color and not fall into the pink causing him
potential of homosexuality, wussy, and weak stigmas.. Male tends
to equal masculinity in post-modern
United States society. Masculinity then equates with strength,
dominance, control, and violence. It is almost as if men are forced
into a little box that makes them put on a disguise of toughness for
everyone in society to see. At times, proof of a real man is showing
violence and the threat of violence upon weaker men who tread outside
the box. This offers a fear of consequences to men pursuing
greener pastures.
Men over the past couple of decades have been taught to take up more
space with muscle.
This
picture
is a symbolic look at how masculinity and muscle are related.
Another typical male is
Arnold.
Men have been taught to have muscle and to use
their muscles. This use is often violence where men do not want to be
considered outside their masculine box and will beat on everything
outside that box that doesn't coincide with society's norms. Outside of this box is what is considered weak males
and females. Therefore, a female makes an interesting target for proving dominance over the opposite
sex and keeping one's manhood.
Masculinity is affiliated to true power and that is shown in movies such as
Rambo. This power includes
beating up and killing others. Another example is
Rocky. Here a white working class male
proves his manhood by beating a black heavyweight champion. In this
story white males in the 1970s felt they had to beat up black males who are
taking their power. The story leads the black male to go hyper masculine and draws
upon
the Italian mobster stereotypical strengths. This is only to be plastered all
over MTV in gangster look and lyrics to be imitated by white males such
as
Slim Shady
who talks about hurting his mom and girlfriend in many of his songs such
as "Stan".
This idea of having to prove masculinity is
taught at a young age in the boy
code which includes saying that "boys will be boys" and "boys don't cry."
All of this helps male children to buy into the idea of domestic
violence. The added pressure of
proving masculinity constantly and females being brought up to act so
differently adds to the use of domestic violence as control. Black and Blue
are the colors of males. It shows they can take a punch or give
one.